Episode 489: Home

Today for writing 101,  our prompt was to choose one word from a selection of six prompt words and write about the one that ‘spoke’ to us the most. I chose ‘home’ as this word has the most meaning for me in so many ways…

When I was six years old my parents divorced and I moved from one end of the country to the other. Then, due to my Mum’s job we moved around some more until finally coming to the county where I have lived for most of the time since.

When I married my first husband, I moved around yet again as he changed jobs, and we always lived with other people. I used to spend at least 18 hours a day in one room due to his long hours, and other issues (I will write about them one day)! This went on for about 8 years until our eventual divorce. Although for the last 2 years I did at least see people as I worked with him for 18 hours per day!

My second marriage, sadly didn’t last long but for the first time we had our own place, albeit only for 6 months before I ended up moving back in with my parents and stayed there throughout my pregnancy, and for the first 10 weeks of Miss Hap’s life.

Then I got this house, which is finally my home. Myself and my baby daughter (at the time) moved in with no carpets, very little furniture (most of it donated to us), mismatched curtains and a small tv. It didn’t matter though as it was home. Our home. Over the 12 years I have been here, I have added carpets, matching curtains and a nice settee as well as some new furniture. More importantly I have planted the garden with the beautiful, fragrant roses that I love so much,

For once in my entire life, I was able to put down some roots, and settle down. I could decorate how I wanted and put up whichever pictures I liked. We have made so many memories here, which it why it is our home.

34 thoughts on “Episode 489: Home

  1. I love this! Thank you for sharing a little bit of your story. A little over a year ago I had to leave my husband, I moved with my two girls to a house significantly smaller than where we had lived with him. It didn’t matter to me, though. I felt free and it was home. I could decorate as my daughters and I pleased, and we have made it a point to make everything very feminine…as it is “the girls’ house”.

    At the end of the month, we will be moving once again to a house where we intend to really settle down. I am so looking forward to making it a home with my daughters…making it look, smell and feel like three peaceful girls live there 🙂

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    1. Thanks so much for your comments Coral. I am so pleased that you and your daughter s are in a much better place now, and have got your ;girls’ house.’ I am sure you must all be excited too about the new move. I bet it will soon be filled with lots of love, happiness and an abundance of ‘girly’ things! 🙂

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  2. I wouldn’t even like to count how many times I’ve moved, as a child and then as an adult. I, too, am quite happy to have finally put down roots. It’s a kinda peace, isn’t it? 🙂

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  3. I loved your post! But what I loved even more is the way you’ve described your home in the last couple paragraphs… I can’t explain how it made me feel but it sure did give me a sense of warmth and it made me connect with what I want in my own home, whenever that day comes! I wish you and your home a wonderful future… and hope to read some more from you 🙂

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